A 32-year-old man confessed that he can't bring his wife to orgasm, despite being married for two years and trying various techniques and sex toys. The Sun published his story in a column where a sexologist and journalist respond to readers' complaints.
Even though his wife assures him that she is satisfied with their intimate life, he feels guilty and worries that there might be a deeper issue. He is particularly concerned that they have tried different methods, including foreplay, special lubricants, different positions, various toys, and vibrators, but nothing has worked. He also mentioned that his wife was very inexperienced with sex when they first started their intimate relationship, and he suspects that the problem may be related to psychological factors.
Deidre Sanders, an advice columnist, suggested that the reader stop focusing on the climax and start appreciating intimacy without fixating on the end goal. She also recommended encouraging his wife to explore her own responses so she can then guide him on what she enjoys.
Despite the man's worry about his inability to bring his wife to orgasm, the sexologist asserts that for many women, pleasure begins in the brain. Reducing tension and shifting focus away from the climax might help solve the problem.
